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How Old was Mary when she gave birth to The Lord Jesus?
Based on the Jewish custom and the historical record, though not exact, the virgin Mary was around 13 years old.
Based on Jewish custom, girls as early as the age of 12, or 12 1/2 were considered marriageable.
Since she was betrothed to be married to Joseph, this is her likely age at the time of the Lord Jesus Christ's birth.
Some bible scholars give the range of 12-16 years old.
The New Testament and Old Testament are silent concerning her exact age.
Here's a Table Showing The Scholarly View:
| Aspect / Question | Details / Evidence | Scholarly Commentary | Notes / Significance |
|---|---|---|---|
| Scriptural Basis | The Gospels of Luke and Matthew describe Mary as a “virgin” betrothed to Joseph (Luke 1:27; Matt 1:18) | Scripture does not explicitly state Mary’s age; assumptions are drawn from Jewish betrothal customs. | Age estimates are inferred from cultural norms rather than explicit text. |
| Jewish Marriage Customs | First-century Jewish girls typically married at 12–14 years old, boys at 18–20 (Josephus, Antiquities 16.5.4). | Scholars like Raymond Brown (The Birth of the Messiah) note that Mary’s engagement to Joseph suggests she was likely in early to mid-teens. | Supports traditional understanding of Mary as a young adolescent at the time of conception. |
| Betrothal Context | Betrothal was a legal contract, often lasting about a year before cohabitation (M. B. Stern, Jewish Marriage in Antiquity). | Betrothed girls were legally considered wives, though they remained in their parental home. | Indicates Mary was likely not yet fully mature physically or socially, consistent with typical age 12–14. |
| Early Church Tradition | Patristic writers suggest Mary was very young, around 14–16 years old (e.g., St. Epiphanius, Panarion). | Scholars note that early tradition emphasizes her youth and purity as part of her role in salvation history. | Reinforces theological symbolism of innocence and readiness for God’s will. |
| Modern Scholarly Consensus | Most historians and biblical scholars estimate Mary’s age at 13–16 years. | Brown (1993), Luz (2007), and Jeremias (1966) all suggest she was likely a young adolescent, aligning with Jewish cultural norms. | Provides historical plausibility for the virgin birth narrative and social context of first-century Galilee. |
| Cultural Significance | Young marriage and virginity emphasized purity, obedience, and social conformity. | Scholars note this explains why betrothal and virginity were emphasized in the Gospel narratives. | Mary’s age and status reinforce theological motifs of humility, obedience, and divine favor. |
| Implications for Nativity Chronology | Mary’s age supports chronological estimates for Jesus’ birth around 4–6 BC. | Cross-referenced with Herod’s reign and Luke’s Quirinius census; age aligns with typical marital customs of the time. | Ensures historical coherence of nativity narratives with known first-century events. |
Scriptures about Mary and the Birth of Jesus
- Isaiah 9:6 For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
- Isaiah 7:14 Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.
- Matthew 1:23 “Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means, God with us).
- Luke 2:7 And she gave birth to her firstborn son and wrapped him in swaddling cloths and laid him in a manger, because there was no place for them in the inn.
- Luke 1:39-45 In those days Mary arose and went with haste into the hill country, to a town in Judah, and she entered the house of Zechariah and greeted Elizabeth. And when Elizabeth heard the greeting of Mary, the baby leaped in her womb. And Elizabeth was filled with the Holy Spirit, and she exclaimed with a loud cry, “Blessed are you among women, and blessed is the fruit of your womb! And why is this granted to me that the mother of my Lord should come to me? For behold, when the sound of your greeting came to my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy. And blessed is she who believed that there would be a fulfillment of what was spoken to her from the Lord.”
Based on Scholarly work here are the findings:
Mary was likely a young adolescent, 12–16 years old, based on Jewish cultural norms and betrothal practices.
Her age is inferred rather than explicitly stated in Scripture.
Early church tradition and patristic sources support her youth, linking it to themes of purity and divine selection.
Understanding her likely age provides historical and cultural context for the nativity narratives.
References:
Books / Commentaries
Brown, Raymond E. The Birth of the Messiah: A Commentary on the Infancy Narratives in Matthew and Luke. Doubleday, 1993.
Detailed discussion of Mary’s age, betrothal, and historical-cultural context of first-century Galilee.
Luz, Ulrich. Matthew 1–7: A Commentary. Fortress Press, 2007.
Commentary on Gospel narratives and implications of Mary’s youth in the nativity account.
Jeremias, Joachim. Infancy Narratives in the Gospels. SCM Press, 1966.
Historical analysis of first-century Jewish customs and likely age of Mary.
Stern, Menahem B. Jewish Marriage in Antiquity. Magnes Press, 1974.
Examination of marriage customs in first-century Palestine, including typical ages for betrothal.
Josephus, Flavius. Antiquities of the Jews. Book 16, Section 5.4.
Provides evidence for marriage practices and social norms in first-century Jewish society.
Epiphanius of Salamis. Panarion. c. 4th century.
Early church testimony emphasizing Mary’s youth and virginity at the time of Jesus’ conception.
Fitzmyer, Joseph A. The Gospel According to Luke I–IX: Introduction, Translation, and Notes. Anchor Bible, 1981.
Discusses historical context and cultural norms influencing Luke’s nativity narrative.
Sanders, E. P. Jesus and Judaism. Fortress Press, 1985.
Provides sociocultural context for Jewish marriage customs and adolescent marriage practices.
